Nobulali Shude is passionate about young girls’ and women’s personal development and emotional wellbeing. She enjoys contributing to their self-discovery and courage to transform.

Equipped with skills and experience acquired in life coaching and occupational therapy, Nobulali offers a range of services that empower her clients to achieve their goals by taking the necessary action steps.

Using a variety of tools and techniques, Nobulali helps her clients uncover what is holding them back from living meaningful lives. Her mission is to help women discover their true selves, one person at a time, so they can live their best authentic lives.

Nobulai Shude, New Insights Certified Life Coach

More About Me

I am the first born of four children and the first grandchild on my father’s side. As much as this position came with some privileges, it also presented some difficult challenges that made it hard to live my life authentically. Most of my life I found myself trying to live up to other people’s expectations, seeking their validation and striving to please them. See, where I come from, as the first born it was drummed into me that I had to be a “good role model” to all those who come after me. As I grew older, I felt this was a huge burden on my shoulders. One thing that made me realise that I was missing out on being my true self was noticing that my younger siblings and cousins were living their lives the way they saw fit, regardless of my attempts at being a “good role model”, and they seemed to be enjoying their lives more than I did mine. The result of all this was my lack of self-awareness, low self-esteem, self-doubt, need for validation, and much more.

It was not until 2012, when I accepted Jesus Christ into my life that I started uncovering my identity. I also had the privilege of speaking to a Counsellor at church who helped me shed off this burdensome responsibility. Since then, finding myself and learning to live my life authentically has been one of my missions. A big change that I made, in my pursuit of authentic living, was to change careers. Having worked in the Financial Administration and Accounting field for 10 years, in 2014 I decided to follow my heart and go back to study Occupational Therapy full time. Two years after I qualified as an Occupational Therapist, I enrolled for the New Insights Life Coach Training Programme as I saw the need in my working with and serving people.

Taking my experience growing up into consideration, I developed a passion for empowering young girls and women to live their lives authentically and coaching has been a very effective tool in doing this.

Services Offered

We will first discuss what your needs are and the options available and best for you in a 30 minute introductory call. We will then meet, either in person or online depending on your location, for the first FREE session of one of the programmes depending on the option suitable for you.

1. New Insights Transformational Coaching Programme

This programme is a self-development programme made up of 15 sessions. It is a New Insights System that allows you to work on your set goals while learning tools and techniques that will help propel your personal growth.

With my help and guidance as your Life Coach, we will explore topics such as human needs and a life of balance, values, beliefs, communication and projection, to name but a few, and the impact they have on how you live your life.

I offer only individual sessions on this programme.

2. Empowerment Programme

This is an empowerment programme made up of 10 sessions. It is aimed at equipping young girls and women with life skills that will help grow their confidence and self-esteem.

We will explore topics such as beliefs, anger management, assertiveness, boundaries, self-care, self-love, etc, and how you can apply them in your daily life.

I offer both individual and group sessions of not more than 10 people per session on this programme.

3. Blended Therapeutic Coaching

This is a combination of occupational therapy and coaching made up of 13 sessions. It is aimed at promoting emotional wellbeing for young girls and women so they can move forward and live a meaningful life.

Depending on your needs, we will employ a variety of tools and techniques to help you participate in your daily activities while pursuing your goals to live your best life.

I offer both individual and group sessions of not more than 10 people per session on this programme.

Request Me as Your Coach

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• Listing ID: 1264
• Name of Practice: Capacity Development for Personal Trends
• Coach Gender: Female
• Year of Birth: 1979
• Practice Location: Cape Town
• Coaching Medium: Face-to-Face, Remote (e.g. Telephone/Skype/Zoom, etc.), Group (face-to-face), Group (remote)
• Qualifications: BCom (Accounting & Business Management); BSc Hon (Occupational Therapy); New Insights Certified Life Coach
• Speciality/Niche: Personal Transformation Coaching, Blended Therapeutic Coaching, Women Empowerment & Coaching (Young Girls & Women Aged 16 to 40)
• Unique Selling Proposition: Offering a range of services that are aimed at empowering young girls and women with tools that promote self-awareness, emotional wellbeing, personal development and courage to unlock their potential to transform and live their best authentic lives.
• Languages Spoken: English, isiXhosa
• Discounts and Incentives: First Session is FREE. Offering 10% discount for upfront payment of the full coaching programme.

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